Quantum Physics' Wave of Pure Potentiality

Nothing cuts deeper than disappointment from those who we esteem so highly. We can accept failing ourselves, but if others fail us or we fail others we die a small death. Are we not able to see how selfish this is? It sets imperfect beings up for failure. The only logical expectations to hold in general are that, more than likely, things will go wrong. Better yet we should just imagine things going either way or both ways simultaneously. Fundamentally, we should understand to expect anything. Some individuals are gifted with "seeing" possible future outcomes, but no one KNOWS what the future holds . Existence is a wave of pure potentiality.